In a traditional wedding ceremony, the couple vows to love each
other "in sickness and in health, for richer or poorer, for better
or worse."
This quality of endurance
is characteristic of Agape love whether that love be for a spouse,
a friend, a co-worker, family member, fellow Christian or someone
to whom you are ministering. We are called to "bear one another's
burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ" (Galatians 6:2 above)
Within any type of relationship, difficulties will arise. Sometimes
they will arise within the relationship. One or both persons will
say or do things which hurt the other. For the most part such hurts
are unintentional, but that doesn't always assuage the pain. More
often the difficulties arise from outside the relationship itself.
Sickness, persecution, financial distress, emotional pain, attacks
of Satan which affect one of the people will by extension affect
both.
Remember the context in which I Corinthians 13 appears. In Chapter
12 is a discussion of the body of Christ and how what affects one
member affects all. True Agape love feels the pain of others, and
in so doing, helps carry that burden. Their prayer needs become our
prayer needs. Their distress becomes our distress. Their need for
salvation, deliverance or healing becomes ours as well. But, you
say, that's hard. How can I carry another person's need as though
it were my own? That isn't natural. Absolutely correct. It isn't
natural. But neither is Agape love, it is supernatural. When you
have loved as much as you can in your own strength and that strength
begins to lag, step out of the way and let
God love that person
through you.
To bear another's burdens doesn't require that we need to be strong,
it simply requires that we be willing. There will always be another
pair of hands helping with that burden. And if you look closely,
you will find that they have the imprints of nails in them from
a time, when he carried a burden that wasn't his.
Remember, this means to
help your brother. not judge him...
Ro:14:10:
But why dost thou judge thy brother? or why dost thou set at nought thy brother? for we shall all stand before the judgment seat of Christ.
13:
Let us not therefore judge one another any more: but judge this rather, that no man put a stumblingblock or an occasion to fall in his brother's way.
It is
Impossible to outgive God
Amen.
Never miss an opportunity to let God know
how much He means to you..
Be sure that people can see how much
God means to you..
Never miss an opportunity to tell your friends and loved ones how much they mean to you..
We never know when "Tomorrow" may be Too Late...